It's too bad but it's also too true that children who are "different" in some ways are often the most bullied. Children who like classical music, prefer to read over playing video games or just have an aire about them that's not typical tend to bear the brunt of tauntings and teasings that can be devastating.
It's been said by those in the medical profession, that IF a child has ONE friend it can make the greatest positive difference in a child's school experience. ONE friend can save the "different" child.
Parents, YOU can help find that child. First, talk to staff at the school and find out what kinds of clubs and/or organizations might interest your child and encourage involvement in those activities. Second, look for community clubs, groups and organizations in which your child may find interest.
If you can't find something, perhaps YOU could organize one! It could be as simple as a "film society" where a few children gather at your house to watch movies of similar interest. A craft group where children can create items of interest, anything that might capture a chance for your child to meet and know others with whom a connection might be made.
Children can survive with ONE friend. Sometimes we parents can help find that one. It's definitely worth a try.
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Excellent, insightful post. I'm not really in a position to know many kids right now, but I do know how hard it can be to be a little different. Its wonderful that you are so passionate about this and about trying to make a difference. Such little things can make such a big difference!
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